Remove your excess “what IF”

Some of you may be scared when attending the interview.

Nervous, nervous,nervous,unprepared!

You have so many questions popped out in your mind.

“what if they asked me difficult questions”

“what if they don’t agree with what I said”

“what if I can’t answer what they asked me”

“what if I look stupid and unprepared in front of them”

“what if I don’t get this job, will I die”

what if

what if

If you want me to list them down, bet It will take me the whole day.

This is what we call high concern about uncertainties.

We CANNOT always have this trait because it would stop us, prevent us from moving forward

We would keep triggering a lot of “what ifs” question which ends up would eat up our own vision.

For instance, you wanna invest some stocks. You have already done your analysis and you are about 80% sure you would get at least 10% return in one month.

However, your inner side keep asking “what if the stock’s price go down” or “what if suddenly market crash”.. Guess what, this stops you from investing.

I’d tell u buddy! We never know until we try. And please find me one thing in this world that has no risk! Even you walk, you have the risk of fell down or stumble.

This risk is what gives the insurance companies lots of million.

So why scared of taking risk? Why don’t you ignore your uncertainties questions.

I am not saying that is not correct. I never mentioned it’s wrong to have that trait.

Precaution is good! Over precaution is eating you. Over thinking would make you worry. Over confidence will make you arrogant. Just be moderate in your thinking and uncertainties.

Asking reasonable “what if” is such a powerful tool to trigger your mind to think more. To have more vision and dream

Now, it’s over to you.

Fantasy: It’s for free. You create it!

“Fantasy” by Earth Wind and Fire

Every man has a place
In his heart there’s a space
And the world can’t erase his fantasies
Take a ride in the sky
On our ship, fantasize
All your dreams will come true right away

And we will live together
Until the twelfth of never
Our voices will ring forever, as one

Every thought is a dream
Rushing by in a stream
Bringing life to the kingdom of doing
Take a ride in the sky
On our ship, fantasize
All your dreams will come true miles away

Our voices will ring together
Until the twelfth of never
We all will live love forever, as one

Come to see victory
In a land called fantasy
Loving life, a new degree
Bring your mind to everlasting liberty

As one, come to see victory
In a land called fantasy
Loving life for you and me
To behold, to your soul is ecstasy

No matter how good you are. If you are afraid to think big. To dream big. Things would not be accomplished your way.
It’s better to die trying than living for nothing.

All the best.

I will share more on the experiences and tips for job hunting process.